Showing posts with label starfish. Show all posts
Showing posts with label starfish. Show all posts

Friday, July 1, 2016

the forest for the trees

Mom is a firm believer in the starfish story - heck, she has starfish tattooed on her forearm. You know the one "you can't save all of them, but you can save this one". Mom says it helps her to focus on what is in front of her and not be burned out trying to worry about things she can't change.

However, an article was posted in Animal Sheltering Magazine talking about changing the rescue model. The author talks about another proverb where a town keeps seeing babies in a river and struggles to save each one. At one point two people start running up river and when the villagers try to call them back, they respond by saying they are going to try to stop them from being thrown into the river.

An interesting perspective.....honestly mom says she hasn't thought about it long enough to know what the answer is for her. But it does require a change in thinking - for example, if someone comes in to surrender an animal, rather than just have them sign over the pet and be "angry" at the surrender, why not ask questions?? What is going on? Can the person be helped with some information or support? Lead them to a food bank or low cost medical care. There are websites out there that also help pet parents with medical costs.

Want to be inspired about this sort of thing? Follow the Pongo Fund out of Portland Oregon. They are striving to keep pets IN THEIR HOMES!! And they are making a difference.

Along those lines, earlier this week Jackson Galaxy and his Foundation moved kittens from Los Angeles to Boulder CO. If you watch the original video, he talks about being inspired....and what it took to make it happen. In short - he knew the right people and they were able to take adoptable kittens from the Best Friends LA shelter to Boulder Humane...which allowed Best Friends to take vulnerable kittens from the LA City Services shelter.

But not everyone has those connections or abilities.

When mom was with a previous group, she had a clash of personalities with the director of that group. The lady told mom that she needed to see the big picture and see the "forest not the trees". Mom got mad and told the lady that the lady's problem was that more often than not she was so focused on the big picture that she forgot the forest was made up of trees.
Cookie and the snack kittens - now all adopted

Not everyone has the abilities to fix the "big picture". While we know that the shift is coming - and that is great - there still need to be people on the ground taking care of the trees. And there is nothing wrong with that either.

Licorice - now adopted


Thursday, April 25, 2013

About them starfishes.....

Mom had been thinking for a while about more ink. She has some that she got just because but more recently, it is about remembering the important things.

Which brings us to starfishes....  Thanks to Miss Connie for putting up a link to one variation of the story. We have seen many but this is a good one. Mom says these starfishes are a way for her to remember when it gets hard that she can't save every animal out there....but she can save the ones right in front of her right now. The top one is red/orange/yellow and the smaller two are shades of blues and then shades of greens.

Mom had talked to the artist last week and was going to go in this week but they take walk ins on Saturdays. She told him she would be there when they opened. Unfortuately, he wasn't there quite yet. He did managed to drag in (in the meantime mom went looking for her expo ticket and ended up with Frito - see Monday). He did a good job despite the hangover, and gave mom the "sorry I was late and hungover" pricing special.

The kitty there: that is Ivy. Mom got that last year. She originally wanted just a graphic design of a cat but found this picture of Ivy in our window and decided to use that. So, the princess is imortalized in ink. (not to inflate her ego any more or anything)

Oh - and Sparkle - we can't help you with the reptile one your mom has.....that is just not right. :)